I’ve been in a relationship with Dana Hill since the summer of 2011. We met in a small group on Facebook. I first met her through her blog and was immediately attracted to her writing style and her style of writing. Our friendship began with an innocent flirtation that eventually turned into a more serious relationship. We’ve had our ups and downs and had everything happen so quickly, there was not much time for us to figure out our relationship.
I think sometimes we forget that we are all just a group of people that is living in this together. We all have different perspectives, different experiences, and it is not hard to see that we are on the same path. Ive learned to love my relationship with Dana because of her honesty and her ability to see things from my viewpoints.
I think the hardest part of this relationship is to be able to see things from their point of view. I think if you have that, then you understand the other person better. For me, when I was able to see the other person in their point of view, I was able to open up a lot more about myself. When we did not have the time to really figure out a relationship, I was able to do this as well.
Dana is a great example of this. At first I was afraid that she would walk out on me, but I think the reason why she didn’t is because she realized that she could learn from my perspective. Being able to learn from someone’s point of view helps you understand that person. It also helps you work through your own shortcomings.
Dana was a friend of Aaron’s, so I was able to learn a lot from him as well. If a person has lots of friends, they tend to get into a comfort zone in their comfort zone. In this way, they get to know themselves so well that they can understand and relate to other people. What I found interesting is that I seem to have learned more from his perspective, but I probably need to watch him to really understand what he’s talking about.
We often find ourselves in the same situation with our friends, family, boyfriends, and girlfriends. Most of us have a lot of friends and have a tendency to get in comfort zones. This comfort zone often manifests itself in a tendency to hide too much, to not fully share what we have to share, or to not be true to ourselves. In other words, we tend to become comfortable with ourselves, but we don’t always know how to get out of that comfort zone.
Sometimes we are so comfortable with ourselves and our comfort zone that it seems we arent really aware of it. It seems that when we are comfortable with something and aren’t willing to challenge it, it becomes the new normal. There are some situations when being uncomfortable with ourselves is actually a good thing. It means that we are in control of our feelings and we can handle them.
I used to be one of those people that would say, “I’m just not comfortable with myself”, but now I think it’s important to understand that being uncomfortable with yourself is a lot more comfortable than being comfortable with someone else. Even though I can’t do anything about it, I can take action that says I am comfortable with myself. If I can’t have my cake and eat it, I’ll eat it myself.
This is one of the reasons why I’m so excited to see dana hill, because she seems like she would be someone that would be able to take action and have her cake and eat it. I’m excited to see how far she will go in this game.
I hope that we never have to sit back and say, “well, she’s a little too uncomfortable with herself.” It makes me uncomfortable to watch a person who obviously has a lot to be uncomfortable with, but who is probably a lot better at it than we are. I hope that we can all learn from her and be comfortable with ourselves, but we can also learn from her about being uncomfortable with eachother and ourselves.